2026 Manifesting: Soft Lives, Big Dreams, & Being a Kawaii Disabled Girlie
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I can’t believe we are already here in 2026. Time is literally flying by, right? I still can’t believe it. I wanted to sit down and finally write out my goals for this year. Usually, I keep these in my journal, but I wanted to share them here because I really want to show that being a disabled girlie doesn't mean you can't have big dreams or live a super cute, kawaii life.
Lately, I’ve been thinking a lot about my "soft life" and what that actually looks like for me. So, here is what I’m manifesting for my 2026!
My Health & Body Goals
This is a big one for me. My goal is to get from 210 lbs down to 120 lbs. I’ve had a really complicated relationship with food for a long time, I’m not going to get into all the messy details, but it’s been a struggle. I chose 120 lbs because it feels like a healthy spot for my height, and honestly, I’m hoping it helps with my pain condition.
Speaking of that, for those who don’t know, I do live with a chronic pain disorder. It’s just a part of my life, like my hair color or my love for pastels. So? it’s just there, but it’s not everything I am. But I really think carrying less weight might make my joints feel a little less angry at me!
P.S. I’m planning a separate post soon about how much my life changed after I put on weight, so stay tuned for that.
Business & The "Soft Life"
I really want to grow my business this year! Being disabled makes traditional 9-to-5s REALLY hard, so my goal is to consistently make between $800 and $1,400 a month.
I looked it up, and that’s around the federal poverty line or what a lot of people make on minimum wage in the US (which is still $7.25 at the federal level, ugh. I think, don’t quote me on that. It varies by state, ig). But honestly? I don’t need a mansion to be happy. I love a simple, peaceful life. If I can hit that $1k-ish mark, I can afford my cute supplies, keep my space cozy, and just breathe.
Love & Dating (Tbh, I’m VERY shy in real life so writing this made me blush too much. I’m 30 soon and the thought of finding a wife makes me blush so much 😳)
Okay, scary topic alert!!! I want to find the love of my life. I know it’s not always easy being a disabled lesbian in the dating world, there are a lot of layers there! But I’ve decided I’m not going to wait until I’m "slim" to be worthy of love. I want to find my person. I want to get married and travel with my wife. I want to cook for her, plan romantic dates for us like…UGH! I just want to love and be loved. I’m such a lover girl. I’m a sucker for romance novels and movies.
Time to lock in this year! I’m going to spend the first part of the year working on my mental and physical health, and then when I feel truly ready and sparkly inside, I’m hitting the apps. Wish me luck!
Future Moves
My last big goal is to start a dedicated savings fund for moving abroad. I love the USA in a lot of ways, but I’m just not vibing with the direction things are headed in the country right now. I want to find somewhere that fits my pace of life a bit better. TBH, I do love the USA and have visited so many beautiful states. I wish I could see all of the states before I go abroad tho since I have such a fear of flying! I want to go to California, New York, Massachusetts, Florida, Oregon and Washington one day. I think those states will be amazing to visit. I live in Ohio and I think it’s okay. I’m not a huge fan, but maybe it’s because I don’t go out much. I feel like I would probably have liked the states I mentioned above way more. So yeh! Moving abroad is the game plan, but I have plans to come back sometimes to explore the USA. Where I am moving? I’m keeping the location a secret for now, but I’ll definitely write a post about it later!
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What are your goals for 2026? Are you aiming for a soft life too? Let me know in the comments!
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